Today, Friday, 21st week in ordinary time, the Lord, in the Gospel, reminds us of the convenience of staying always awake and ready to meet him. Whether at midnight, or at any other moment, a cry can ring out at our door to invite us to come out and meet our Lord. Death never makes appointments. In fact, “you know neither the day nor the hour” (Mt 25:13).

To be on the alert does not mean to live with fear and anguish. It means to live our life as sons of God, our life of faith, hope and charity, in a responsible way. The Lord is continuously waiting for our response of faith and love, constant and patient, amid the chores and preoccupations that weave our life.

And this response can only be given by us; you and I. Nobody else can give it in our place. This is what it means —the denial of the sensible maidens to the careless ones— to share their oil for the lamps that were going out: “Go instead to the merchants and buy some for yourselves” (Mt 25:9). Our response before God is, therefore, personal and not transferable.

Let us not wait for a “tomorrow” —that may never come— to trim up the lamp of our love for the Spouse. Carpe diem! We must live every second of our life with all the passion a Christian must feel for his Lord. It is a well-known saying but we might as well refresh our memory: “Live each day of your life as if it were the first day of your existence, as if it were the only day we have, as if it were the last day of our life.” A realistic call we have to carry out for a necessary and reasonable conversion.

Let God give us the grace of his mercy that we may not have to hear in the supreme hour: “Amen, I say to you, I do not know you” (Mt 25:12), that is, “you have had no relation whatsoever with me.” Let us treat the Lord in this life in such a way that we may become his acquaintances and friends in our time and in eternity.